Rethinking Housing Options for Autistic Adults in the UK and Ireland

For many of us, home is more than just four walls and a roof — it’s a place of safety, autonomy, and belonging. But for autistic adults across the UK and Ireland, finding and maintaining appropriate housing can be an uphill battle, shaped by complex systems, inconsistent supports, and a fundamental misunderstanding of what “independent living” really means.

As our societies grow more aware of neurodiversity, we’re still falling short when it comes to supported living solutions that honour the individuality, rights, and futures of autistic people. It’s time we had a real conversation about that.

The Housing Gap: More Than Just Bricks and Mortar

According to a 2023 report by the National Autistic Society, a significant proportion of autistic adults in the UK are living in inappropriate housing or are at risk of social isolation due to poor support. Some live with aging parents without a clear plan for the future. Others are placed in institutional settings that do not meet their sensory or emotional needs. Many face long waiting lists or are offered accommodation that’s far from their community, making it even harder to access work, education, or friendship.

In Ireland, the picture is equally concerning. A 2020 study by AsIAm revealed that most housing options for autistic adults are still based on outdated models, lacking personalisation, and often ignoring autistic voices altogether.

Independence ≠ Isolation

Too often, the idea of “independent living” is confused with simply living alone. But true independence means having choice and control — not just over where you live, but how you live. That might mean shared living with peers, supported accommodation with a trusted team, or living solo with regular mentoring and community ties.

The key is flexibility and co-creation. Housing must be shaped with autistic adults, not just for them. The autistic community is diverse — so why should housing options be a one-size-fits-all?

Why This Matters Now

We are standing at a crossroads. The population of autistic adults being diagnosed is growing, yet the housing system is still playing catch-up. Without long-term planning, families are left anxious, carers are stretched, and autistic individuals are denied the dignity of a future they can shape for themselves.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. Innovative models already exist — from autism-designed co-housing initiatives to personalised support plans delivered by neuro-affirming teams. What’s missing is often the conversation — and the commitment to scale these solutions equitably.

Join the Conversation at The Right Place

To move forward, we need spaces where voices can be heard, experiences shared, and ideas tested. That’s why Autism Connect is hosting ‘The Right Place’ — a special event exploring supported living and long-term planning for autistic adults. We’re responding to the growing number of queries we receive from autistic adults and their families about supported living, floating support, and long-term planning. This event will highlight great work happening in the sector — and open the floor for meaningful conversations about unmet needs.

📅 May 22nd, 2–5 PM
📍 Banville Hotel, Banbridge

This afternoon gathering is open to autistic adults (18+), parents, carers, and professionals working in housing or social care. Expect thoughtful discussions, peer insights, and the opportunity to help talk, think and discuss more about how we can shape more inclusive futures.

✨ Our Autism Connect programme also offers 1:1 mentoring, peer support, social hubs, trips, and more — all designed with and for the autistic community.

Interested in attending or learning more?
📞 RSVP to Sharon at 028 3083 5764
📧 autismconnect@bolstercommunity.org